I'm not good at this one thing...

…and it’s the thing I coach other people to do all the time.

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I’m an Enneagram Type 2: The Helper.

My core drivers?
✨ Autonomy
✨ Developing Others
✨ Contribution

As an intuitive coach, shaman, and astrologer, my life’s work — and my work work — is supporting people through their toughest seasons.

I’m proud to say that I’m quite gifted at navigating emotional situations.
In a crisis, you want me in your corner.

But you know what I’m not so good at?

Asking for help.

Because when you’re the lightworker, the “rock,” the one who keeps it all together, you don’t want people to worry.
(That’s your work — so why would you burden others with it?)

When a core part of your identity is built around lighting the way for others… How do you admit that you, too, might need a torch?

Is that failure?

No. It’s uncomfortably human.

So here’s a reminder — for you, and for me:

You don’t have to hit rock bottom to ask for support.
You don’t have to break down to be allowed to soften.
And you don’t have to carry it all alone just because you always have.

Being in your feels doesn’t make you weak.
Grief doesn’t have a timeline.
And strength doesn’t mean silence.

You’re allowed to ask for help —
even if you’re the helper.
Maybe especially then.

✨ If you’ve ever struggled to ask for help — even when you’re the strong one — I’d love to hear how you navigate it. Drop a comment or reply. Let’s normalize these conversations.